371. what does it mean to be human?
For the last few hundred years, we have become increasingly skilled at turning complex parts of life into abstractions. We take something living, contextual, and difficult to measure, then reduce it into a form that can be counted, compared, standardized, managed, or traded. Money becomes an abstraction of value, calories an abstraction of food, productivity an abstraction of work, GDP an abstraction of economic activity, while a résumé attempts to compress a person’s professional life into a page and a step count turns movement into a number we can watch accumulate on a screen.
There is nothing inherently wrong with abstraction itself. In many cases, it is useful, and some degree of simplification is necessary for a society of any real scale to function. Problems begin to emerge when the representation starts carrying more weight than the thing it was designed to represent, because eventually we stop using the abstraction merely to help us understand reality and begin reorganizing reality around the abstraction.
Work becomes hours, output, and efficiency; food becomes calories, macros, and price; education becomes test scores, credentials, and institutional affiliation; health becomes lab values, step counts, and readiness scores. Attention is translated into engagement, relationships into networks, and time itself is divided into units that can be allocated, measured, sold, and optimized. Gradually, a person becomes easier to understand through the collection of measurable outputs attached to them than as a living organism embedded within a biological, social, and physical environment that cannot be fully represented by any of those measurements.
The same process makes nearly everything easier to commodify because once something has been standardized, it becomes easier to price, exchange, optimize, and scale. Labor becomes labor-hours, land becomes real estate, food becomes inventory, attention becomes ad impressions, and human behavior becomes data that can be collected, analyzed, predicted, and sold. Even something as fundamental as sleep can be reframed as “recovery optimization,” where its value increasingly comes from its ability to improve tomorrow’s performance rather than from the simple biological reality that an animal requires sleep.
Over time, these abstractions inevitably begin shaping what we value in people as well. We reward predictability, efficiency, consistency, productivity, emotional control, and the ability to produce more while consuming fewer resources, while admiring people who can tolerate longer hours, answer faster, manage greater workloads, eliminate downtime, and continue performing despite fatigue. When those qualities become dominant measures of success, a person’s value can quietly become inseparable from what they produce and how efficiently they produce it.
Those are perfectly reasonable qualities to value in a machine, but they become far more questionable when they are allowed to define a human being.
Fundamentally, we are animals, and being an animal means living with a degree of variability that cannot simply be engineered away. We have rhythms, fluctuating energy, wandering attention, emotional needs, physical limits, and a dependence on movement, sunlight, food, relationships, play, novelty, solitude, and periods of recovery. There are times when we are capable of extraordinary effort and periods when very little useful output happens at all, because living organisms are constantly responding to changing conditions rather than operating at a fixed level of performance. Hunger, light, stress, temperature, sleep, movement, social connection, illness, seasons, and countless other signals continually alter the state of the organism, making variability an unavoidable feature of being alive.
Modern life has increasingly taught us to interpret many of those biological characteristics as inefficiencies requiring correction. Fatigue becomes a problem because it reduces output, sleep occupies hours that could otherwise be productive, boredom disrupts concentration, emotion complicates decision-making, and relationships demand time whose value is difficult to quantify. Even play, leisure, and unstructured time can begin to feel vaguely irresponsible because they produce so little that can be measured afterward.
The response has been to gradually break down what it means to be human into parts that can be measured, managed, and commodified. We track sleep, quantify movement, measure food, schedule recovery, monitor readiness, analyze our attention, and increasingly treat the body as another system whose inputs and outputs should be optimized. Hobbies turn into side businesses, leisure becomes an opportunity for self-improvement, exercise becomes another collection of performance metrics, and recovery itself can become valuable primarily because it allows us to return to being productive more quickly. Tools originally intended to help us understand ourselves can quietly reinforce the same worldview that made us feel the need to optimize ourselves in the first place.
Artificial Intelligence (AI) enters this world at an interesting moment because it excels at many of the characteristics we have spent generations elevating within ourselves. It can process information rapidly, work with enormous quantities of data, reproduce outputs consistently, remain available without needing rest, and perform certain forms of cognitive labor at a speed no human could reasonably match. If efficiency, scalability, consistency, memory, speed, and productivity continue to occupy such a large part of how we assign value, then machines will increasingly outperform us according to the standards we created.
There is something uncomfortable in what that reveals. We have spent generations trying to overcome the biological limits of being human, only to create technologies that possess many of the qualities we were unsuccessfully attempting to cultivate in ourselves. The machine does not become tired of repetition, resent the absence of meaning, need an afternoon in the sun, lose concentration because it slept poorly, or decide that spending time with someone it loves is more important than producing another widget. We experience those things because our existence is embodied, relational, and finite, yet we have spent generations treating many of them as obstacles standing between us and greater productivity.
Perhaps the inevitable, society-wide infusion of AI will finally force us to examine why we ever chose those standards in the first place and, in doing so, return us to a much more fundamental question about what it means to be human. If machines become better than us at many of the tasks around which we organize work and economic value, we will be left confronting parts of ourselves that abstraction has made increasingly easy to ignore. A human life contains experiences whose importance cannot be adequately represented by productivity, efficiency, income, status, credentials, biometric scores, or any other measurement we created to make people easier to evaluate.
We know intuitively that sitting with someone we love can matter even when nothing is accomplished, that play can be worthwhile without producing an outcome, that walking outside can have value beyond the number of steps recorded, and that a person going through a period of illness, grief, exhaustion, or uncertainty has not somehow become less human because their productive capacity has declined. Yet, much of the world we have built struggles to account for value that cannot be translated into output, perhaps because we have spent so long organizing ourselves around the parts of life that are easiest to quantify.
The arrival of AI that can outperform us across increasingly large portions of the measurable world may therefore leave us with a much older and more difficult question. Once we stop confusing our economic usefulness with the totality of our value, we still have to decide what we believe a human being is, what kind of life is appropriate for an animal like us, and which parts of our existence deserve to be protected precisely because they cannot be made more efficient.
231. hinging your tomorrows on yesterday
Not everything is meant to last forever. But the end of something doesn’t mean you failed. It more likely means the thing you’re after is failing you. Who you’ve become in the process can no longer be fulfilled by whatever it is you’re afraid to fail at. And in trying, you’re not opening yourself up to the possibility of something that can fulfill the new person you’ve become. You’re hinging your tomorrows on yesterday.
We have to realize that there is a distinction between what is worth saving and what is worth walking away from. But we all want there to be definitive answers, so we wait for absolutes, and that’s the biggest mistake because they never come. We’re always going to be at battle with “what if?”
Our decisions are always going to come with conflict. In choosing to walk away from old systems and toward greater possibilities, sometimes we also have to come to terms with letting go of what was great about the old system.
As I like to say, “there are no right answers, but there are wrong ones.” This life is about forward progress and momentum. If the situation you find yourself in isn’t moving you forward, or at least allowing you to maintain the momentum toward the life you want, then it’s important to periodically ask, “is this system serving who I want to become, or holding me back?” Pay attention to the themes.
The answers are never simple and choices will always be hard, but nothing worth it comes easy.
225. tribes
We used to be born into tribes. We didn’t have to find people from other countries or walks of life that share our values or ideas, and then try to create our own. We had very little choice in the matter, but what it gave us was a sense of belonging, identity, and continuity.
We didn’t have to figure out who we were because being born into a tribe inherently meant… “I know who I am, because I know who I am a part of.”
We didn’t have to wonder what to do because the tribe would automatically dictate our approach… “I know what to do, because, I do what I am told.”
We didn’t have to worry about finding purpose because our relationships were organized in a way that gave us a sense of duty and obligation… “I am happy when I fulfill the tasks that are expected of me.”
We weren’t raised for autonomy. We weren’t raised to use our words to say what we want. We were raised to know what other people want from us. Despite the gap in time, we are, to a large extent, still these people.
In the transition from childhood to adulting we are thrust into a world of autonomy, and most of us have no idea how to find our place in the modern world. Hence, the boom in the self-help book genre. We’re all looking to find our place. We have never been more free to make our own decisions, yet more alone in the process.
So, how can we overcome this challenge?
Unfortunately, I don’t see that there is any “quick fix” because, in a way, the whole concept of autonomy is going against human nature. We exist to work together. However, in finding your tribe, I think the best approach for any of us will be to focus more on ways of showing the world who you are comfortable being, rather than trying to find somewhere you’d like to fit in. Your tribe should gravitate toward you, not the other way around.
In essence, this whole concept of starting this blog and sharing my ideas is a way to find my place in the world. To work out my ideas and hopefully find others along the way. All we can really do is try, learn, adapt, and grow. And eventually, if we show up consistently, and with conviction, we’re bound to find our tribe.
221. find yourself
Most of us live within other peoples value systems. Ever since we were children, we were told what was valuable and what wasn’t. We took on those values because without them, we didn’t think we could be loved or accepted. We became this person who holds things of importance without ever really understanding why. But it’s because we are a product of our environment.
The values impressed upon us from a young age, carry us through life if they align with our path, and cause us great strife if they’re in conflict with the path we should be walking.
So, how can we reconcile these things? We need to take a step back and look at all the things we’re doing. Are we doing them because we should, or because we want to? There is a distinctive difference, and in figuring it out, we can find ourselves and start living the way we’re meant to.
194. in line
Are your goals in line with our values?
You have to remember that if you say “yes” to one thing, most likely you’re saying “no” to someone or something else. It’s not necessarily good or bad, right or wrong, it’s just what it is.
That decision in itself helps clarify your values, and understand your priorities. Both of which lead to your identity, and the way the world sees you.
If you are acting in congruence with your values, ideally those values are tied to the person you want to become. So, in practice; instead of trying to be somebody that tries to do something, become that person who does it. Instead of thinking it’s important for me to go workout, think I’m the person who works out. By simply reframing the language you start to become that person, and because we inevitably are what we do, sometimes we just need a little change in language to set us off in the right direction.
130. find the value in everything
Find the value in everything. Everything that ever happened to you has been instrumental in defining the person you’ve become. All the good and bad, love and heartbreak, success and failure, brought you to where you are today. With the power of hindsight, it’s easy to look back and say, “I should have done that differently,” but we forget that it is those past choices — that we may regret now — which grant us insight to our past actions and offer wisdom with how best to move forward. If you went back and made a different choice, you would be a different person, with a different point of few, making different choices, and perhaps even making the same mistakes.
Our experience in this life, as Vernon Law put it, “is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, and the lesson afterward.” We have to have the experiences to understand the wisdom lessons otherwise we will keep making the same mistakes. So find the value in all that you do, and know that everything you’ve done, is as is should be.